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DH just called me a *c**t, a w*nker and a selfish f*cling bitch

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21833efb · 24/04/2021 10:20

Not really an AIBU but posting for traffic

Now the TV is up loud, he keeps telling me to f*ck off and giving me a death stare, telling me "Happy Saturday!", slamming doors and I can't go and sit with him as he will yell at me to f off

Because his alarm went of at 7.30 this morning as last night I told him to set it (he didn't have to, just knew he had things to do today)

Has a history of verbal/emotional abuse but always my fault

Currently upstairs shaking and scared, the cats are terrified and dog not happy either

Apparently I am selfish and don't look after him

Only last night he was talking about refuges for men and about how abusive women lie - think he had this morning planned all along.

I am supposed to be seeing my family tomorrow but might not go now.

Things have been OK for a while but it's blown up this morning out of nowhere and it's all my fault

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FlissMumsnet · 24/04/2021 21:00

We've been asked to post some links to advice and support on this thread, which seemed like a good idea.

Perhaps most importantly, here's our link to our Domestic Violence webguide in case any number there is of use.

We also have a piece here about coercive control and another on spotting the signs of an abusive relationship.

And we put this page together with the help of women's aid, which might be of interest for anyone who knows someone in an abusive relationship or even is just talking to them on the boards.

We appreciate that everyone wants to give the OP advice and support and that it all comes from a good place but we have had to delete a few posts that we felt were either victim blaming or just went a bit beyond 'advice'. We're sure the OP is grateful for all the responses but please do bear our talk guidelines in mind when posting and remember that someone's situation is rarely quite as simple as it might appear from reading their posts, particularly when they're in a difficult or vulnerable situation.

OP, we wish you all the best.
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