So Many Complete Jackasses

[Sandra15]

Why are so many men total jackasses?

I have been a member of this board for a month, joining to get some insight on an issue with a friend, but have been drawn into discussions about men, dating, OLD, etc. I had a jackass moment myself last year with a guy and I have read similar stories. The OLD ones are one thing, but what about those women in relationships with complete tossers who abuse them verbally and physically and cheat and are selfish?

What makes them like this? Will our princes ever come?

@Sandra15

Why are so many men total jackasses?

I have been a member of this board for a month, joining to get some insight on an issue with a friend, but have been drawn into discussions about men, dating, OLD, etc. I had a jackass moment myself last year with a guy and I have read similar stories. The OLD ones are one thing, but what about those women in relationships with complete tossers who abuse them verbally and physically and cheat and are selfish?

What makes them like this? Will our princes ever come?

Well, i too would like to know who is raising these men to turn out that way.

And frankly they don't lose much by being selfish, immature jackasses. There's always someone who will mate and breed with them anyway, no matter how low they are. So what incentive have they to change?

I have a DP but if we ever broke up, in this day and age I think I’d consider becoming a lesbian.

@Miasicarisatia

and pulsing against u for me the worst part is the 'u' it just makes him seem as dumb as a rock... not that one would risk using the word 'rock'

Oh I know. I kept the messages for the laugh. Another little selection is:

Excuse this
But it makes me feel like giving you a long slow embrace
Sorry 😱😱😱💋💋💋💋💋

Morning beautiful 💋💋💋

Anyhow
Let me know how you would have seduced me in that car hot lips 😜💋💋💋💋💋

I’m talking about taking my time when we r up close and personal 😜💋💋💋

All excited at this end 😜😱😱😱💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋

I’m imagining that you’ve put your hands around my very hard shaft
Slowly running up n down its length xxxxxx

I can imagine my shaven balls slamming into that lovely slit as I enter u
Right up to the hilt
Firmly and slow at first xxxxxxxxxxxxx

he's just wanking at you isnt he
urghh makes me feel sick

@Miasicarisatia

he's just wanking at you isnt he urghh makes me feel sick

It made me think he was doing that and I felt sick too. He asked me to send voicemails too. It makes you feel that you are nothing when they do this. It's the first and last experience of this kind I've ever had. I thought 'what a very strange man' but then so many seem to do it nowadays!

I'm also on a Facebook page that discusses my local football team. What often happens is that someone posts a discussion about the game and we all chip in with our comments. I was answering one person, a guy, and he was answering me (all on the group page) about the football match, the team etc, all OK, then he sent me a friend request so I accepted. Immediately he came back with "are you single and looking to mingle?" I told him I wasn't and he unfriended me quick as a flash. How odd, he is still on the football group.

The man who sent all those messages and emojis asked me if I thought he was a pervert and assured me he wasn't. If they have to protest ............

What does OLD stand for please?

Odd limp dick

Over loving dipshit

Old loser dummy

Online dating.

@eatsleepread

Online dating.

Thanks :)

Or as above

@Miasicarisatia

he's just wanking at you isnt he urghh makes me feel sick

I had a guy do that on a video call, I hung up and reported him then unmatched him. It was disgusting and made me really uncomfortable. So many say you should have a video call but after that I really don't want to ever again.

I had a guy do that on a video call
I remember this happening to me (some years ago) I thought it was odd that he showed up to the video call in a bathrobe and then it appeared on the screen, I hung up

@thecatsarecrazy

I used to get.. I want you to be my little spoon, I want to feel you in my arms, take you out for a meal have your hand in mine... Now I get I'm going to fill all your holes, stretch you, and cum over your face , put you over my knee with a toy inside you... Disgusting.

I have a date on Monday with a guy who has been saying all the sweet stuff about wanting to hold my hand and cuddle 😂. It feels very old-fashioned and I'm really hoping he doesn't change!

I've also had men send me wanking videos with the money shot at the end 🤮 completely unexpected and unasked for...one had the nerve to block me before I could block him!

Christ it's worse than I imagined!

@Sandra15
It's one of the reasons I've given up. I've lost all hope of finding someone decent, better to be on my own then interacting with literal wankers!

When I get the sex talk messages (and can sense they’re after a wank), I play along until I think they’re about to cum. I then block them! 😂😂😂😂

Why? Because they can.

Like PP said, it's a numbers game to them. It used to be they had to be pleasant to get any action. Now days they don't.

Like the comment about the friend of their DS messaging 500 asking if they want to fuck and getting 2 yes.
Does his parents know he does that? They probably think him a sweet respectful man lol.

The guy who was messaging me all that stuff often posted pics of his mum and particularly Mother's Day and her birthday when he'd taken her out to some flash Michelin star place complete with pictures of presents and food. She probably thinks he's the perfect son. I wonder what she'd think of his purple prose?

@thecatsarecrazy I had one like that years ago, though different name and job. I'd get told I was 'being blunt' if I didnt give 'enough' kisses in texts. He turned out to be a moody controlling arse.

It was OK getting that sort of stuff on a hookup site. On there I really hated the cut and paste first post which was all about laughing over a glass of wine before his hand touched my thigh etc, which you would get almost verbatim from several men. There are always women like me who are in the market for a direct sex-only approach. Just not all that many.

[quote Sparklfairy]@thecatsarecrazy I had one like that years ago, though different name and job. I'd get told I was 'being blunt' if I didnt give 'enough' kisses in texts. He turned out to be a moody controlling arse.[/quote]
Yep he is.. we met on social media and now he gets shitty with me if I post on social media because I'm obviously trying to get attention from other men. He is a narcissist prick. Last night after 4 hours of silence I get.. I'm going to bed now babe been falling asleep on Sofa. I just replied ok night. Hour later he text night. It's all just a game. I've only met him once in person, he texts every day but hasn't said when lockdown restrictions end I will see you again or anything

@thecatsarecrazy urrrgh he sounds exactly the same as 'mine's even down to the 'babe and the social media'! I stayed too long, life with him was a total headfuck! Seriously don't waste your time. Take the smug satisfaction of getting out now and being the one to reject him

'Mine' not 'mine's, damn autocorrect trying to fix my grammar

Yep I should. The love bombing at the start got me hooked but now it's just anxious thoughts and game playing. Really not worth the hastle. I've been there for him through money worries, job losses, a death in his family and he's done sweet f o for me. Can't even get a nice text when I'm down. If it's not about him he's not interested