My marriage ended at the beginning of the year and I'm happily enjoying been single and have no interest in dating or getting into a relationship anytime soon. However over the last couple of weeks a man I met in work has been quiet flirty and suggested we go for a drink when lock is over and the rules relax. I just laughed it off and didn't really give a response. This man is very friendly but has mentioned in conversation that he's been married and divorced twice and has children with both ex wife's. Doesn't have a good relationship with either and has limited access to both sets of children because of this. He claims it's because his wives were upset that he ended the marriages. I haven't pushed for any more info I don't intend on entering into any kind of relationship with him and this information doesn't fill me with any desire to even think about it. But it has got me thinking, at my age we are all going to have baggage me included and maybe at some point I might want to be in a relationship again although right now I very much doubt it. But would a man with two ex wives with children and both ex wives hate him would that be a red flag or am I been a bit unfair?