Been with my bf for over 10 years. But i feel like his love for me depends on how much sex we are having. If he is in a bad mood I ask what's up and he will tell me "you know what to do to make me happy". He has terrible mood swings if we haven't done it for a while. He isn't physically abusive though. But the other morning I heard him call our 5 yr old a little twat. And our 5 yr old asked him what's wrong and he told him daddy wants pumpy wumpy. He will frequently talk to me sexually Infront of the kids which I don't like and he knows.
I am starting to feel as though his happiness and good behaviour depends on how much we dtd. Sometimes a few weeks can pass without doing it and he will start to ingnore me and make comments about how little we are doing it. I don't have a high sex drive and in the past I have done it just for his benefit. But he would complain it's not good enough because I laid like a sack of potatoes. So this put me off doing it when I'm not in the mood.
Please tell me it's not normal to act like this