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My ex has now got verbally abusive

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Leanne1191 · 27/03/2021 18:40

So yesterday my ex husband showed a new side to him.

He decided to slam the door in my mums face and call her a scummy tramp, a scumbag c* and told her to fuck off and all in front of our children!

My mum has been the middle person for the last 8-10 weeks because I do not want any contact with him what's so ever. He's a typical narcissist. I've been doing so well too, I did post a few weeks ago about him acting different and starting to come to my house, looking for my car, wanting my mum to get me to ring him, buying our 8 & 5 year old a phone and the list goes on. He cheated on me and is with the woman he cheated on me with, I have been through some tough shit with him the last 8 months and it's not been until I've told him which I was advised by the police to change my number, and get a third person involved. Which I have done and now he's getting nasty. I've had to report him to the police yesterday because of what he did and said and in front of our children, it was only last Monday that the police had called him and warned him not to keep coming to my house as I feel uncomfortable in my own home now when he has the kids and is due to bring them back because I'm worried he will just turn up as he has been doing.

I need advice on what to do? He's taking me to court in June as he wants contact set in stone and is now acting like this and being a complete asshole.

OP posts:
Leanne1191 · 03/04/2021 10:23

@AIMD

They’re just saying not to let your ex know you are making an application for non molestation order as you want to do it without him knowing about it until he has to.
Oh ok I thought she may of said that I shouldn't go through with it 🙄
OP posts:
AIMD · 03/04/2021 18:27

@Leanne1191 no it sounds like she wants the application for a non molestation order to be made without notice so he won’t know about it until/if an order is made. So she is not mentioning non molestation application the application in the other form.

This must all be very stressful!

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