Got a message from ex’s ex on FB messenger tonight.

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So I’m going to guess she also messaged his other ex, who has much more of an axe to grind with him and she probably replied so he will probably be giving me the sob story about that soon enough.

I’m ignoring it, I don’t want to get involved in anything, why does his drama come back to involve me years later argh 😠

That’s it really just want to moan 🙈

You can read it without her knowing you have. Then no one knows you know and THEN you can make a drama about it.

Making a drama over an unopened message of which you have no idea of the content makes YOU the one for drama. Not them.

Well that was 5 minutes of my morning that I'm never getting back!

Just read the fucking message

Sounds as though you love drama too OP.

What was the point in making this? What support do you expect people to offer?

Support for what? It's a message you have decided not to read?

Well that's five minutes I won't get back.

@Gizlotsmum

Is she a recent ex of your ex? How does she even know you? If you ignore it will it just go away? I read it as you will be dragged into the drama anyway? Are you still in contact with your ex?

Yes she’s a recent ex of his, yes we are in contact as we have a child together, and you are right I will be dragged into the drama anyway, and I know that it’s coming.

Thank you to those who get it. Not sure how posting about something on a chat forum about my feelings is making Drama, I thought that was what it is here for, but you can tell the people who are here for it.

So it's not just an ex its your child's father, that does make it slightly different to a random ex!

Tbh if you have a child together I’d preview the message as a minimum without accepting it.

There might be info you should know.

It's just a notification, could be something minor she'd sent when drunk/sent to wrong person and no drama will come your way. Bizarre post when you don't even know what it says or if there is indeed any drama to be had!

God you sound like hard work op. Look even open it or block them but don’t create drama about such a non-event when you haven’t even read the message. Utterly bizarre!

Maybe he raped her? Or hit her? Maybe he made her life a living hell and she's looking for some confirmation?

Although I've never done it, I have thought about messaging my ex's new gf to spare her the trauma of dating a colossal loser. Guess she'll find out the hard way, like I did.

Well as @Riapia said , u might not want to know but we do now !

Nah on a serious note I’d read it u can Incase it’s important and you can always block and ignore if it’s a load of shit.

You having a child together massively changes things. I would read it. You don't have to respond.

But you’ve not asked for any support - why are you having a go at PPs when we don’t know how to help? Maybe if you’d included all the info in your OP your responses may have been different?

I’m going to leave the thread now. I know some people get it and I thank those who do.

Fascinating

Even I want to know what's in the message, and I'm the least nosiest person I know.

Well this was a complete waste of time. Attention-seeking rubbish.

The irony of not wanting the drama but starting a MN thread

Who gets it?
Explain it to me please!

I’d love to know what attention I’m getting from this 🤷🏻‍♀️ People are just vile for no reason I can see.

@TheQueef

Who gets it? Explain it to me please!

You want me to go through the tread and list all the people who have given proper responses - surely that’s clear to see

Right I’m really going now.

Presumably the ex's ex is in your child's life to some extent? Why would you want to post about how you're ignoring a message from them?

It could be important and about your child. I'd want to hear what she has to say.