New relationship

[Sosad2021]

Been seeing someone for a few weeks. Seems nice, a bit opinionated but the big issue is he is happy to come to my house. We are both single and agreed to bubble. However he hasn't invited me to his house. I have suggested it twice and he says no it's a mess. I'm feeling uneasy

No, no, he's married. Walk away, listen to your gut.

Or he's a filthy bastard and not in the good way. Once again, walk away.

Married, filthy, or something else equally as bad. Red flag, run for your life.

If you’re uneasy, I bet he’s a whole lot more uneasy about you visiting his home!! Bit suspect.

What do you mean

He seems to be able to see me for an evening though so I don't think he is married

Probably married or wants to spend a night out every week to save on his bills, god knows why people do such weird things, OP have you asked him why he’s never invited you round? X

Yes he says it is a mess

It’s weird. He’s fobbing you off and that’s rude.

He never washes up at mine or helps cook

Then why doesn’t he tidy up? This is the bit where he’s meant to be impressing you. Aren’t you worth tidying up for?

I agree Anne I ask about popping round on Sunday he has 2 days to tidy

So do I end it

Yep. Plenty more fish in the sea. If this is what the honeymoon looks like I’m afraid it’s downhill from here. And he’s already expecting you to cook, clean, wait on and host him. How is any of this making your life easier or you feel valued?

That's true. Really fancied going to his gor a change and he just says no!

"he says it is a mess"

Maybe he's a hoarder?

Not sure I want to go there if he is a hoarder

Maybe he's lazy and cheap as fuck - if you're cooking for him and waiting on him, plus sex - maybe he doesn't want to host you.

Whatever the reason it's not exactly the great romance.

He did buy food

@Sosad2021

He never washes up at mine or helps cook

Honestly, why the fuck are you shagging this man? He's a filthy slob who comes to yours to get a catered meal with kitchen porter service thrown in and a shag. Why is your bar so low? This guy's a slatternly user.

Throw this one back. Jesus wept!

Opinionated, user, slob, leech, all after just a few weeks.

'This isn't really what I need and want out of a relationship. I'm finishing this and we need to move on.' Then you block and delete.

@Sosad2021

He did buy food

Wow, what a star!

Which you cooked... it’s not great is it.

No it's not

What he is telling you is that you are not worth making an effort for. Why would you want to date him. I think he is married or lives in his mums spare room.

I suppose he is