My husband and I have been having issues in the bedroom off and on for the past 2 years. I discovered that he was looking at pictures of women daily for around 18mths. Nothing heavy but clearly pictures to give himself a buzz. I didn't confront him at first and just accepted 'men do this' until it started causing problems in the bedroom. He started to suffer with ED which he put down to all sorts of reasons... he's tired, stressed, his back hurts but after putting a lot of effort in on both parts to reduce the issues he still suffered with ED and all the while I note he's still looking daily at these pictures. I eventually raised it with him and he minimised it saying its nothing, just silly pictures, but understood why I'd be concerned with how much he was looking at and how often, he later admits to looking at some soft porn videos. He has categorically said he still finds me attractive and that he hasn't looked at another picture/video since finding out how it made me feel. He said I am the woman of his dreams and is becoming so frustrated that we are still having issues that he is suffering with performance related ED as well. I'm prepared to work with him on this and support him as much as possible. I've done some research and I think he has sexually conditioned his brain to respond to the images he was looking at. He was compulsively looking at sneaky peak images such as a flash up a skirt, down the top a bit of side boob but scrolled through so many he has conditioned himself to variety and instant reward bursts. Has anyone had any experience of rebooting and if so can they share?