And how did you feel? I feel a bit sick and sad and empty but bizarrely relieved?
I think I stopped loving mine last night. He was on a night shift and I was using his computer. He left in a rush, a dozen tabs were open. Facebook was logged in and I'm a glutton for punishment so I invaded his privacy and saw an exchange between him and a woman he knows who has started selling naked pictures of herself. He has gone back and deleted messages as it's jumbled up and doesn't read coherently, so I can't work out if he paid for the photographs or "just" offered his opinion 
Anyway. I checked my period tracker and would you believe that at 1am that night we had sex. Their message exchanged ranged 11pm-midnight. So you see, he got turned on by her and then fucked me. The hilarious thing is that we're 3 years into infertility and sex is a bit of a regimented thing anyway, so I remember being pleasantly surprised that he was being so spontaneous 
I've spent the day ignoring him. I feel like a flat balloon. We've been together for 10 years and but that really was the final nail in the coffin. He killed my love for him. And I'm wasting my precious weekend thinking about my next steps.
Sorry to start such a depressing thread on a Sunday night but I would be interested to hear about other people's experiences who have been there and done that.