He's took me for a mug

[iwanteggfriedricefuckingpronto]

See my last post. In brief he's a complete and utter prick. I have FINALLY ended the relationship. Low and be-fucking-hold he wants all the fucking benefits of a gf/partner even tho I don't want him. He has continued to (what I would classify it as even if he doesn't) abuse me in the previous few weeks touching my breasts constantly, poking my private parts with his foot when I try to stand up from the sofa, undoing my bra when I'm sleeping, waking up to him playing with my nipples despite me expressing numerous times that I HATE it, to name a few. Makes me feel physically ill. If I sleep elsewhere he searches for me in the night and makes me come to bed. Tip of the ice berg in his controlling behaviour!!

I'm not sure if it's mentioned in my previous posts (see previous thread for name changes) that he used to be a coke head and his last relationship ended due to him picking females from his dealer to have sex with for a fee. Which I absolutely do not agree with.

Anyway, I ended it a few weeks ago, he's bought me jewellery, persuaded me to 'enjoy' each other's company until he leaves. I said I'd give him as long as it took to find somewhere else, to which he said would take months. As if I'm fucking stupid. Well I move in a month so that was to be the set deadline. But tonight, despite living under MY roof rent/bill free the despicable prick has disappeared to his coke head mates for the night, dressed in his very expensive clothes (Xmas present from me no less), shaven, to 'help move doors'. This was at 3 o clock. I don't understand why he thinks I'm thick! Who the fuck goes to do manual labour in expensive clothes. God knows if he's fucking a prostitute for a fee. Filthy fucking perverted prick. How dare he! I am seething. Yes I ended the relationship but while he's living under my roof - that I pay for!!!!!- The least I expect is a little decency and fucking respect. Please excuse my language.

Absolute fucking nob cheese 🧀

Put his shit on the step! Barricade the door! Don't let him in! Why the fuck would you?

And not to be harsh but why would you expect decency and respect from someone who is regularly sexually assaulting you!??

Firstly omg, and all the best op, secondly unless he's 007 then shifting doors wearing ££ clothes is very strange,

@FortunesFave you're spot on.

I'm quite serious about shutting him out OP. If he's not married to you then fuck him off.

If he calls the police then tell them he's sexually assaulted you. Get that shit out!

@FortunesFave

I'm quite serious about shutting him out OP. If he's not married to you then fuck him off.

If he calls the police then tell them he's sexually assaulted you. Get that shit out!

Absolutely agree with this poster... start packing his shit this minute, throw it outside, lock the door, leave your key in it and if there's any trouble, call the police...

Why don't you bag his stuff up and dump it outside the door and change the locks in the morning?

Throw it in binbags...don't tie the tops up so any passing dogs can have a little browse.

Go on...take your life back. What's he going to do? Break the door down? If he so much as raises his voice, immediately call the police.

It's over.... kick him out right now

Please say you've locked the door, left the keys in the back and his stuff on the doorstep OP.

Next time he does this, pack his stuff and leave it outside and don't let him back in the house.

Or better yet, get rid of him today. You don't have to put up with his sexual assaults. Get the police involved.

I left the keys in the door.

Packing his stuff into bin bags and I'm changing the locks after the school run.

Excellent. Well done.

If he kicks off, call the cops.

School run?

Key workers. Other countries.

As if the issue here is to question the OPs school run

Good luck OP

I'm a key worker

I just hope he doesn't turn up here this morning

If he does, don't let him in, speak to him through the door and call the cops if he makes a scene.

No. Don't even speak to him through the door. Say nothing.

HIs stuff on the doorstep will let him know you're serious.

He'll only give you a sob story...ignore him completely and if he bangs a lot, only then say "LEAVE NOW OR I"M CALLING THE POLICE" and if he doesn't leave, THEN call the police.

Well done OP. If you are concerned he may kick off, could you call the non emergency police line and ask them to flag your address in case you need them later?

I've messaged him telling him his stuff will be available to collect from my doorstep by a certain time. Hopefully that sends the message loud and clear that he isn't welcome

Fair play OP, I hope there's no drama for you this morning.

Interesting that he's been out moving furniture all night in his expensive clothes, must have been a big job

How long have you been together. Well done on packing his stuff up, he has no right to be there if he doesn't pay rent.