I’ve been ghosted and it hurts

[Whyohwhydididothat]

I’ve been speaking to this guy of tinder for the past 6 weeks and today I know that I’ve been ghosted. We had a disagreement this morning and he blocked me on WhatsApp. We texted of normal text messenger then and he promised to reply a few hours ago and hasn’t. It’s really upset me and I feel so down and it’s so bloody stupid.
I’m really upset about this

He said what? Man he is really creepy. Thats a 'prove your innocene' manipulation. Usually you dont get to see that shit starting until a few months into dating a narcissist. The man is a walking red flag. He's terrifying.

I'm glad its put you off! I hipe you know why it should.

I have a friend with autism who gravitates to the wrong sort. I think part of it is she is afraid to be single. Like she thinks 'everyone else can have this, why cant I?'. Like she thinks it's what 'normal' people do. I think I'm in a relationship maybe 5% of my life (not that I'm the baseline for 'normal' haha) I'm happier single, there are a lot of weirdos out there (and not the good kind). Its dangerous for everyone but when you are too focussed on dating to prove to yourself that you are the same and deserve the same (or whatever you are try to prove to yourself) then you dont see the warning signs that everyone else would spot.

And anyone with low self esteem can find themselves in the same predicament. Autism or not.

Ah he's playing those games.... yeah you're gonna be messed about with good and proper.