Hi all, need a bit of advice here. I am a recently divorced mom of 2. Recently I've been corresponding with a gentlemen who grew up in the same time as me, we've just never crossed paths. He now lives in the Midwest, I still live relatively close to where we grew up. He came across me on Facebook because I had like and commented on his band's page.
So anyway, a few days ago he messages me and we chat all day Thursday and Friday, getting to know each other. He says he's going to move back in the Spring or Summer.He comes on somewhat strong - saying he's not looking to hook up but wants to form a real connection. That he can't wait to meet me, and feel me, kiss me. So Saturday night we talk all throughout the night. He tells me he's been drinking as an FYI. He's saying we seem like kindred spirits, and that he can't wait to become "one" (meaning consummating our relationship in the sack I guess?).
At the end of the conversation, I state I'm going to bed and he asks me if I would be ok waiting for him while he figures out his next move. I didn't see the message until the morning, so I text him Sunday morning with "I will wait.". He responds about an hour later apologizing for the previous night, that he is an idiot and needs to hide his phone while he's drinking. He tells me not to wait for him, that I should be free to date whomever I want, but that he would like to stay in touch for when he visits so we can actually meet, "even if you're dating someone else". I replied by telling him that I'm recently divorced, so dating is not a priority. I won't be looking for dates, but if it happens, it happens." He then said "I am going to chug water and lay down for a bit. I wish you a lovely Sunday my new friend."
What the hell? He spent the past few days telling me all of these wonderful things. His "drunk: messages were extremely coherent and grammatically correct (especially for texting). The conversation went just like the one the previous night, and he wasn't drinking that previous night. We went from texting all day, to nothing Sunday, and nothing today. I never responded to his text wishing me a good Sunday and I don't plan on texting him again. Is this the right move? I am so confused.