So me and my partner have been together for almost 9 months, our living arrangements are i have a house of my own and he still lives with his parents, at the start he would come round and we would a food few hours enjoying each other company, as time went on he would leave with the intention of staying at home but would then come back and stay over as he couldn't bare to be away from me, it progressed that he had basically moved in and was here every single night for almost 6 months, during this time his parents were renovating and decorating. Anyways we hit a rocky patch, and he ended up going back home, this was 2 and a half months ago and he hasn't slept over once since. I have asked him multiple times to stay and he responds with "ill see" or "I like my own bed" or "why do you need me to stay over" or "you don't need me to stay over"
I'm not expecting him to stay over every single night, but a couple of nights a week would be nice.
He works til late at night, 10:30/11pm whereas I'm 9 til 5 so our time together is limited as it is anyway.
Am I being unreasonable to expect him to stay at least a couple of nights a week?
The current situation is, he comes in at night, every night, stays sometimes til 2:30am and goes home, baring in mind, im up for a 9am start....