Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Help what do I do ?

29 replies

Leah8719xx · 07/12/2020 20:48

I don't know who to talk to. This is why I'm
Posting I don't want friends or family knowing until I'm
Sure what to do I want advice from people who don't know me to give honest opinions. My
Baby girl is 4 months old. I told my boyfriend today I was going to book a night away in feb with my friend for our Xmas present to each other. I've not spent more than an hour away from my baby since she was born pretty much on my own with her partner works away so it's hard work. He come back to me and said what dates as he's booked a holiday (behind my back) I was horrified and heartbroken I would never stop anyone from doing anything but it's a very long distance holiday and for two weeks. I'm
So upset he doesn't think he's wrong how can I trust him when he's gone behind my back. He said if I want to end it then do it but basically he's going. He's putting a holiday before me and our baby tell me I'm not wrong before I drive myself insane. He's a grown 30 year old man not some young teen who hasn't got it out of his system. Help me

OP posts:
pheonixrebirth · 08/12/2020 17:37

He's a Twat, pure and simple.

I'd also hazard a guess that he doesn't want to be in a relationship ship anymore, so he's doing the cowardly thing and forcing your hand.
So if you finish with him, he doesn't look like the bad guy for leaving his partner and new born baby.

eightxmaspaws · 08/12/2020 17:42

Someone who willingly gives you an ultimatum that you can end the relationship or stop making a fuss- but he’s going on the holiday regardless- is showing you that he does not care about the relationship at all. Not one tiny bit.
In fact, he wants you to dump him then it’s not ‘his fault’
Total spoon.
No, it’s entirely him not you.

MadeForThis · 08/12/2020 17:51

Do as he asks and end it.

willowmelangell · 08/12/2020 18:10

You share a house? Who's name?
I am disgusted that he still thinks he is a single lad. Worse, he has booked this behind your back. When was he going to tell you I wonder.
Selfish partner and horrible father.
Can you leave to a safe accommodation? Is this something you would consider?
If it were a perfect world I would wave him off on this kept-secret holiday and take that time to move out.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread