Did my boyfriend just say he wanted a threesome?

[Namechange1983]

So I’ve been serious with a guy for over 2 months. Me 37 him 30.

I mentioned earlier that one of my girl friends was upset with a guy she was seeing. He then made a joke about bringing her into our bed then said some stupid shit that he wasn’t sure he could keep up with 2 women.
I asked him are you saying you want a threesome and he replied, dunno could be interesting I guess!

What the hell was that. I brought him up on it and he was like I was joking. That’s not funny tho is it, I’m really put off now.

Do you think that sounded like a joke?

Sounds like a dumb bloke joke. Couldn't get worked up about it

That ain't a joke.

He's bold I'll give him that.

If it's not alright with you, you know what to do....

sounds like a joke. He wasnt seriously suggesting it.

It has to actually be funny to be a joke.
Men making everything about their dick isn't funny.
Women have been conditioned to put up with it.

I think I'd get rid.

His sense of humour sounds a bit crass for me.

@Closingtime94

Message him back saying "you're right it would be interesting, is any of your hot friends up for it?" And you'll see if it was a joke or not

This would be my reaction to his 'joke'

Which clearly was not a joke. Its only a joke if it does not get a positive reaction. If you had been up for it, no way would it have been a joke. IMO.

It’s a new relationship, still should be being decent I think early on.

He should be decent at all times, not just early on. You’re not comfortable with him talking like this. Raise the bar OP.

It's jokey, I have heard men say this many times, not to me, but general men talk along the way.

It's probably a joke. He'd probably shit himself if you agreed
I wouldn't take it seriously.
If he was serious he could go and fulfill his dreams elsewhere.

He said it to see what your reaction was.

Well I brought it up myself as a joke yesterday.....”you know you seemed interested in a threesome the other day and said you were just joking”.... “well do you have any really fit guy friends who’d be interested because I said No but then I’ve never tried it”.

Let’s just say he was very quick to reiterate that he was joking and that he wouldn’t be up for that!

He's telling you who he is. He has an acceptance of multiple partners and risque sexual behaviour.

I remember when my ex made a "joke" about having a hidden camera in his bedroom. And about buying a mega box of condoms. Given the way he behaved in terms of cheating and then ending it for another woman and then cheating on her and ending it (I know her a little) and then going on Tinder, I still worry about those "jokes".