Tell me not to message him

[Wanttobeonabeach]

I want to message him, I miss him terribly everyday. I'm stupidly in love still after weeks. I think about him everyday.

Cons - we fell out quite badly, he ignored me last time I reached out, he was never fully in anyway, hot and cold. He will probably ignore me.

Please talk me out of this wise people.

@Wanttobeonabeach

We have all been there I found reading articles by the woman I sent the link to really helped me !

Hello and thank you. I can't see the link works 🤔?

I'm not going to do it, nothing good could possibly come from it.

No don't I have had to give my phone to people to stop me messaging

Yeah if you message him it will either begin again and then he will return to his flakiness self or you willl feel worse for waiting

Time is the only answer

go.mumsnet.com/?xs=1&id=470X1554755&url=natashaadamo.com/how-to-stop-seeking-validation/

Thank you for the article....that is exactly me.

Screw him he doesn’t deserve you! You deserve someone who is all in and who doesn’t ignore you. Block and delete his number now!!!

Then go and treat yourself to something and enjoy being your fabulous self.

Remember there was something wrong with him not you and one day someone will walk into your life and show you how a lady like you should be treated and you will realise exactly how short he fell of them standards

I split from my ex in March and felt the exact same way. He called a few weeks ago and wanted to see me. Honestly I didn’t feel anything. No butterflies. No urge to run to him. If anything I was glad I wasn’t at home and I was staying with a friend at the time. You too will get there.

How are you OP? Hope you've kept your resolve.

Would you be attracted to someone who chased you like this OP? After you said it was over and you hadn't been particularly interested anyway?