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suddenly irresistible to younger men

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Fancyachippy · 20/11/2020 20:22

I am 53 and have just come out of a 17 year relationship. I don't want the whole live in/life long partner thing again. Not quite sure what I want but dipped my toe into OLD. Went into it with a very open mind and a huge age range (mid 30s to 60s).
In my younger days I was never that attractive. OK but nothing special. When I hit mid forties the weight dropped off me, I got cheekbones and suddenly I became prettier with a much better figure than I had ever had before.
Here's the thing - all the guys who are most interested in me are around 35 years - and there's loads of them and gorgeous too. Should I just go for it and enjoy some sex with some guys who I would never have been able 'to pull' in my younger days or is there a huge risk that I am just going to feel like an old slapper and just 'an experience' for a younger guy? In so many ways I just want to go for it but I am scared I am going to feel my age and ultimately end up feeling used.

OP posts:
Redland12 · 22/11/2020 00:36

@MikeUniformMike, yes they are just looking for that, but so am I. Why would I want a man my age! (62) these young guys do things in the bedroom that blow my mind! So different to when I was their age! It’s absolutely fantastic! They last longer and when it’s over, 5 minutes they are ready to go again. Bloody perfect 😛😛😛😛

NiceGerbil · 22/11/2020 04:00

So it goes the other way right? Men who are in their 40,s 50s, sixties. Should be very very wary of younger women and definitely not think there's a chance of a relationship and... Um. Because it's a fetish? Or something?..

NiceGerbil · 22/11/2020 04:04

I just admit it is a bit bit weird.

But. It's a thing. I like it tbh.

I was never much of a flirt. And have always been oddly naive. I never thought blokes fancied me.

So I don't think I'm imagining it. It's very odd. Those who are single I'd say go for it tbh.

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