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We ended up fighting

52 replies

BlackEyedGirl · 14/10/2007 09:25

I feel awful, last night me and DP had a fight and DS saw the last stages of it. We were arguining and I got annoyed and threw an egg at him and so he threw a sausage at me (cold) so without thinking I threw some bacon at him from the pan and its burnt the side of his face. The mess is still there this morning and I cant face cleaning it up as it brings it all back.

OP posts:
pirategirl · 14/10/2007 09:27

omg, sorry but thats made me laff. bacon burns??

and you cant face clearing up as it reminds you.

CappuScreamO · 14/10/2007 09:28

oh yes far better to leave it there and it can stand as a constant reminder

Original poster
BlackEyedGirl · 14/10/2007 09:29

well I havn't spoken to him since, I suppose me cleaning it up is like an admission that it was my fault but I don't think it was. I don't know why we even bother staying together anymore.

OP posts:
LucyJones · 14/10/2007 09:30

This isn't the first tiem you've spoken about problems with him iirc.
Have you consdiered counselling?

CappuScreamO · 14/10/2007 09:31

that sounds a bit childish to me

surely the best thing to do is just get the house clean esp if you have kids in it?

SpookyDooooo · 14/10/2007 09:34

How strange you had a fried breakfast fight?

I think however you should start cleaing up if you have children otherwise are they not going to wonder what ia going on if there is bacon, egg's & sausage everywhere?

WanderingTrolley · 14/10/2007 09:49

Hmm...sounds like a case of out of the frying pan into the fight to me.

chacha3 · 14/10/2007 09:52

oooh nasty...

lissiethevampireslayer · 14/10/2007 09:54

how is your husbands face this morning? sounds like you both need counselling tbh

LolaTheShowgirl · 14/10/2007 12:21

Sorry, it made me laugh too. It's really quite something you might see on a sketch show! Are you for real?

Alambil · 14/10/2007 12:37

why is it funny? If a bloke threw BURNING FAT covered bacon in a woman's face - would we all be laughing or would he be a really huge bully that she should leave???

Clean it up - sort yourselves out and if you can't - split up.

Think of the kids - do they REALLY want to see / hear all this?? (and they hear more than you think)

lissiethevampireslayer · 14/10/2007 14:48

im sorry, but im with lewis here, my first reaction was horror. this is not good for any of you x

MarshaBrady · 14/10/2007 14:52

crikey sounds bad. Ouch at the burning fat.
Do you have children?

Elizabetth · 14/10/2007 15:29

What are you angry about, BlackEyedGirl?

Lulumama · 14/10/2007 15:51

what lewisfan said

how appallingly childish of both of you

your children saw you resort to that sort of petty nastiness

you burnt your husband.. if you did that to a stranger, you;d be in court without question

sort yourselves out, get some anger management, who cares whose fault it is? your children do not need to see this

mamazon · 14/10/2007 17:11

my first reaction was "troll"

if you arent a troll then please may you take some advice from someone who knows and leave, or ask him to leave because the pair of you are seriously damaging your childs mental wellbeing by fighting in front of them.

who started it or who cleans up is not important, your both childish and need to grow up

Beelliesebub · 14/10/2007 17:36

My first reaction was "Make salad"!

prettyfly1 · 14/10/2007 18:13

um ladies, sorry to be the boring one (not including lewisfan or the other girls who followed her) but this site is not about judgement or making fun of peoples issues. It is also quite frankly rude to acuse someone of trolling on the basis of one post, whilst you may not be able to see the situation, if this is a serious request for help, you may well have stopped that person coming back onto the site, and cut off thier support as a result. This person has posted before, which doesnt necessarily make them genuine but certainly adds more weight to their argument.
This post isnt funny - if my husband threw boiling fat covered food in my face in front of my son you would all jump up and down in horror so lets all try and remember that this site is about support and non judgement.
To the poster, you really need to seek advise about your anger - i have read other posts of yours and i think you and your partner need ot have a long talk about how you deal with your relationship issues.

lissiethevampireslayer · 14/10/2007 18:20

well said prettyfly.

Greensleeves · 15/10/2007 00:35

sorry but PPPPPHHHHFFFFFFRRRRGGGGHHHHHTTTTTTT

Pan · 15/10/2007 00:37

Gotten all hungry now......did said cooked breakfast have any HP on it??

TheEvilDediderata · 15/10/2007 00:42

Unlikely. The bacon was still in the pan, remember? It hadn't got to the dressing stage.

Greensleeves · 15/10/2007 00:43

they don't call you sherlock at all

Pan · 15/10/2007 00:45

Well she may have quickly doused the slice of pig very deftly just prior to flight...>...long shot I know..(or was it?)..but you are wearing the deerstalker, so I bow.....again.

TheEvilDediderata · 15/10/2007 00:47

No shit????

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