OMG ~ I need help, fallen in love with a teenager?

[mrsrobinson]

i am completely confused and upset. I have changed name btw for this post.

I am 31 years old, and started a job in a supermarket 3 months ago, I started really having a laugh with this one lad, he really made me smile and we really connected, i would look forward to going in to work as I knew he was there, he even changed a shift so he could do the same as me.

I knew he was younger than me, but I figured 23/24, and as I am single I thought a few years couldn't hurt, we met for a drink and had a really good time for the first 3 hours, until it came into the conversation that he was in fact 18 years old, I was so shocked as he looked and certainly acted older.

This happened Saturday night and I made my excuses and left, I am so confused as I think that I have fallen in love with him and cant get him out of my mind, but the other part is thinking there is something wrong with me.

Need help / advice / support.

Mrs R

Well done, glad it is going ok, and you are happy.
Sounds so sweet, my dh was very caring like that when we started seeing each other.

Oooh I'm so jealous, if I was in your shoes I'd be going for it!
Glad all has gone well for your first week! Good luck and have fun but do be on your guard, surely that's only sensible so you don't crumble should he move on.. his age being considered and all that.
good luck.

I think he sounds lovely - you have nothing to lose by going out with him, do you? And his mum sounds amazing too. I hope it all goes well

Enjoy a therapeutic shag or two then move on. You are obviously attractive and desirable to men, so get this guy out of your system then find someone mature enough to accept you, and, all your responsibilities.

Well if Demi and Cameron can do it, why can't you??
I don't see a problem here .... if you like eachother then go for it ...
It might be a problem later on if you get serious and a) you want more children and he isn't ready or b) he wants children but you feel you are too old for that ... BUT those problems shouldn't be an issue now ...

Ooops sorry gingerbear, I should read more carefully

Glad its going well for you Mrs R enjoy!!