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Partner looking at provocative Instagram accounts..

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instajealous · 03/10/2020 23:18

Do you have a problem with your significant other looking at naked girls on Instagram... I mean like glamour model style perfection.. super provocative shots..

I'm not sure if this is commonplace and means nothing or if this is something I am right to be feeling concerned about. These girls are unattainably perfect and he is following new accounts too... just makes me feel like a troll who he couldn't possibly find attractive!

What would you think if your partner was doing this?

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GilbertMarkham · 05/10/2020 12:26

I'd also add that there's a category of men within the above who will use sex workers in order to have sex with young, "hot" women while in marriages/partnerships.

I think I browsed a punter site out of curiosity once and a man said clearly that he used sex workers in order to have sex with women who were out of his league (when he was young but especially as he got older).

Cheeeeislifenow · 05/10/2020 12:38

I follow jason momoa, purely because he is hot.. I don't know, depends on the rest of the relationship.

Marshmallowmom · 05/10/2020 12:56

@Cheeeeislifenow

I follow jason momoa, purely because he is hot.. I don't know, depends on the rest of the relationship.
Yes but does Jason Momoa bend over in a g strong to show you his ass ? Are you following several men simply based on their bodies and or youth and perhaps most importantly, when you’re 40 , 50 or older will you be filling men wearing next to nothing the same age as your adult children or grandchildren ? And if so, how do you think your husband assuming he is the same age as you will see you and your behaviour . How do you think it would reflect his desire for you , the relationship etc Because you need to understand that’s exactly what many men are doing
Cheeeeislifenow · 05/10/2020 18:18

@marshmallow

Jason momoa in a g string?? Where??

These things are fantasy, not based on reality. Be different if I was ogling his brother or somethin!

Kittengloves · 05/10/2020 21:53

Yes yes we’ve all heard the old excuse about ‘ it’s just fantasy ‘ I see a crush on a movie star as very different than ogling any woman who’s willing to get her gear off btw . How is that any different to a neighbour . Do you think it’s simply because the opportunity to follow through isn’t there . That’s just ridiculous . If he’s willing to spend time checking out any girl next door who gets her head off online do you think he’s gonna walk away in real life if the chance comes along
You didn’t answer any of my questions interestingly , just deferred to the old ‘ it’s fantasy excuse M so many men give

EarthSight · 06/10/2020 13:27

No. I wouldn't be ok. For one thing it's just easier to click 'send message'.

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