He's calling me a narcissist but it's him,he's twisting everything.

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My ex and I split.
Through the whole year we were together he messed with my head.
He would show me texts off girls who fancied him and told me not to get jealous..then if I reacted he would say I was "behaving crazy"
He has blew hot and cold with me and blamed it on my "behaviour"
When we weren't "official" but I thought we were ..he took other girls out and told me he slept with them.
He would tell me he didn't want to see me again because of my behaviour,then if I text him he would say I'm "harassing" him.
I've just lost my mum and he's twisted everything.
He said my behaviour has been out of control,I think I own him and I don't.
He said he is sick of my behaviour if he talks to other girls (one screenshot was a girl saying she wanted to fuck him)
He's made me feel like I'm not good enough but twisted it that he hasn't done anything wrong and I'm crazy.
I'm not crazy,he would do things to get a reaction,I would react and he would say "there you go ,going off it again "
He's just sent me a long message saying the only message he wants off me is an apology for my behaviour (I've apologised before even tho i wasn't wrong ) he said he's embarrassed by me and I'm obsessed with him (I'm not I just loved him) he said he wants nothing to do with me and I'm the reason for that.
He said I have a narcissistic personality and I have caused this.

@MashedSweetSpud I have blocked him this time for good.
I know I'm stupid,I just kept telling myself it was me,maybe if I hadn't of done A B and C he would have done whatever.

@HumptyD that's the thing I feel guilty not grieving my mum and wasting my time grieving a prick instead.

He has fucked with your mind. I'm so sorry and so sorry about your mum.

No Contact is hard. But you can do it.

I know its easier said than done - but move on

You’re not stupid op, you got caught up in him and he treated you terribly from the start.

Don’t take too long to get over him, you deserve better.

Well done OP. You’ve managed to block him. I know it was hard for you and I’m glad everyone on here was able to help you come to that conclusion.

We are all here for you when you need us. There is no need to unblock him later on for any reason. Leave him blocked in everything.

Get in touch with your friends or family.
Get out for a walk in the sun.
Buy a vitamin d3 supplement to boost your immune system for the winter when there is no sun!

Do things that keep you busy.
Eat healthily and keep yourself mentally and physically strong.
You will come out the other side of this difficult time much better than you were before.

Bloody hell, he sounds utterly vile. You're well shot of such a cruel man.