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Handhold needed. Going NC

4 replies

NeedtogoNC · 14/09/2020 11:25

Finally ended it after years of being messed around. He’s a weak, spineless coward who continues to put his ex wife first despite being divorced over 8 years.

Went NC yesterday. He begged to give it another chance, that he’ll change blah blah blah but how many more chances can I give him? It’s been 3 years and nothing changes.

Please tell me I’m doing the right thing by going NC and moving on with my life. It physically hurts and I can feel myself weakening and wanting to message. Sad

OP posts:
RantAndDec · 14/09/2020 11:27

You've done the right thing. Stay strong!
But if you do cave, don't beat yourself up too much. It is hard. It will get easier.

NeedtogoNC · 14/09/2020 11:29

I honestly believed he was the love of my life, my absolute soulmate and life partner. But it was all love bombing and future faking.

OP posts:
RantAndDec · 15/09/2020 09:10

It's horrible. I honestly don't think most of them know what they're doing. Their instinct is this kind of crap.
How are you feeling today?

edwinbear · 15/09/2020 09:20

Come and join us on this thread.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/4022514-30-days-no-contact-anyone-want-to-join-me-or-handhold

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