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Dating a man in poly relationship

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Melanie1811 · 08/09/2020 19:02

So I’ve been seeing a man who has a partner and they have child together. She has a long term partner on the side. And now I’m dating him. She sees her lover twice a week And they have sex and She is sleeping with her partner (The one I’m seeing) only once a month. I am now dating him and falling so in love. He is bringing me flowers, calling me all the time, stops by to bring me lunch to work. Amazing. I want him for myself. Do you think I should end it now? Or just enjoy dating him for a while or there is a chance he might leave her? Or do I get used to being second woman? Anyone ever done this poly thing? What happened in the end ?

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unmarkedbythat · 10/09/2020 16:59

I want him for myself. Do you think I should end it now? Or just enjoy dating him for a while or there is a chance he might leave her?

You won't have him for yourself.
Yes, you should end it now.
He isn't going to leave her.

You aren't poly, don't try and have a poly relationship.

Stannisbaratheonsboxofmatches · 10/09/2020 17:55

I wouldn’t ever be able to trust they were using condoms so couldn’t do a poly.

If you don’t want to be in a poly for any reason you should get out.

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