So, I am not sure if I am being sensitive or go with my gut, something feels off?
I have been dating someone for 3 months. He is a very good 'catch' so to speak and initially he was keener than me, sating how much he wants a future etc He admitted to having a lot of girlfriends and a past and being in a pattern. Not sure what he meant by that. So, here is my issue. I feel insecure, Im not generally an insecure person. He is getting messages on his phone and smiles but doesn't say what about or who it is. He made a point of telling me how the woman in the gym told his her name and he did his, then left it at that? why is he doing this? is he trying to make me feel insecure? im not sure he is emotionally available. I really like but his jokey nature makes me feel im mot sure how serious he is, or if he will be faithful. I dont want to feel like this and not sure if it is me, him, or a bit of both. Any advice? my head is muddled