I’ve been contacted by OW

[OntheWaves40]

DP initially denied until OW sent proof. It’s been a difficult week already with DD playing up and now this. I’m tired. I’m broken and DP just keeps saying he’s sorry and he loves me and won’t do it again. I so want to believe him and move on because I’m too tired to argue/confront/be assertive which of course DP is trying to sweep it under the carpet and blame pressures of lockdown etc.

Don’t buy a house with him OP. If you take him back he’ll do it again and it will be much harder to go your separate ways.

Get rid.

Ugh. Twat.

I'm so sorry you are going through this.

OP - it’s up to you where you want to go with this relationship.
However. He did end it. And then had his fling. He didn’t sneak around. She isn’t an OW.
And in all fairness - lockdown was a very trying time for everybody and for many relationships.
Whatever issues you had before must have magnified. And i am sure he was objectively under a lot of stress.

But again. The issue is more whether the problems you’ve had before can be resolved. And if you want to give this a second chance.