I just discovered my partner of 11 years sealing up a parcel addressed to me from the postman. For a while now, I've noticed bank statements disappearing and extra 'tape' on parcels from the post office where it looked like someone had looked inside first then resealed. My partner is a super control freak - controls the heating temperature from his phone, even when he's staying at his parents, and also controls when we can /cannot see the Internet, also from his phone. Checks what we watch on Netflix too, from his phone etc. If I say anything, he stonewalls or deflects, but this feels like the last straw. I feel absolutely horrible and wonder how long he's been spying on me like this. He says he's sorry, but I don't believe him and think he'll do it again. What should I do?