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the bloody caravan....

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TheViewFromTheSheepSeats · 06/08/2020 13:29

DP and I have been having some issues- which recently culminated in his going to stay with a friend for a week (at my request) to give us both some space.

Since he came home things have been better, and about 10 days ago we bought a cheap caravan for trips away-

since the caravan came home, every time we have the slightest disagreement DP marches off to sleep in the caravan for the night. (3 times in the last week)

this really pisses me off, we didn't buy a caravan for him to have a manly bolt hole so that he doesn't have to discuss anything uncomfortable! i don't think its healthy to walk out on a discussion, as then everything gets brushed under the rug.

This usually happens just as we are about to go to bed, so while he is snoring away outside i am left lying in bed upset and frustrated.

i know this isnt AIBU but i do feel that is my question.

so AIBU to be unhappy about this?

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WellIWasInTheNeighbourhoo · 07/08/2020 14:40

It stonewalling and its really not good for relationships. In fact its one of Gottmans 4 Horsemen of the Apocalpyse in predicting divorce, have a google if you want to read about it and how to deal with it.

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