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Karma...or Revenge ....

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Oakleaf40 · 28/07/2020 11:00

I have split from my husband after nearly 20 years together, I had to live next to him for nearly 15mths until we were in a better financial position for him to move out. In that time he started a friendship with is now a relationship with another woman.

I was devastated as I thought we would always you know, work it out etc but hey she stepped.in to comfort him I guess..
Now they are moving in together and shes posting it all over social media alongside little cryptic posts having digs at me etc and its heartbreaking for me and she knows it. I have held head up high and not responded to anything which is so hard..
Anyway to cut a long story short he has told me that they are moving into a house together in a very small area, and have lied about the references as they got someone else to write a reference for them and they have said they only have two dogs. Tenancy only allows two small pets at the landlords discretion. They are going to move in with wait for it... 7 dogs.. plus a puppy so 8 in total..
I could let the estate agents know but I think I will let Karma work its magic

What are your thoughts..

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Oakleaf40 · 28/07/2020 17:00

@Cheeseandwin5

OK just to be clear your EX didnt cheat on you, but rather met someone when you had split up albeit you were still together. So what you are really angry about is that he didn't make more effort to be with you rather than any infidelity on his or the OW part. That being the case, i would just leave them to it. Its none of your business and to be honest making an effort to disrupt their lives in a pretty shameful action. If there is karma than you will need to be the one worried if you take that action. Also get rid of your 'friend' she is trying to stir and hurting you in the process.
Absolutely I'm angry as she has made alot of effort to be very disruptive where I have left well alone, so it does make me wonder what and why she would do it for etc.
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