Separated from exdh 18 months ago.
He has a history of paranoia and mental health issues that he denies. Although I believe he sees a psychiatrist for what he believes is coping with his M.E.
Since the separation he has seen our 3 dc about 5 times. Not at all since Christmas.
Elder teen girls now want nothing to do with him after being bombarded with vile texts about me and thinly veiled threats about what he might do to any future partner I may have. Calling me names, a prostitute, satan, evil etc. They eventually blocked him after pleading with him to stop.
7 year old ds has no contact at all as no phone and has never ever asked for contact.
His texts to me are in the hundreds. Similar threats, pleading in the early days and then progressing to what he would do to someone I start seeing.
I told him to stop in March or I would tell the police and he did.
Till last night. I received messages informing me that if I were to get with someone he perceives as not suitable there will be consequences. He sent a link to a torture chamber?
I told him to stop, that this was harassment.
His reply was the following
Ahhh playing the harassment card just for a text, okay.
Not sure that washes in court with the length of time since the last texts months back.
See, harassment is constant abuse.
But yeah, I'll respect your wishes
Get my boy ready for him to see me on his birthday.. pretty please
What do I do ?
Do I call the police and ask them to give him a harassment warning ?
He said if I call the police he will tell them how bent they are and a few things about me ?? Theres nothing to tell ?
Do I go to a solicitor and get a non molestation order?
Is this abuse? Is it bad enough?
Do I just ignore him?
And worst of all, he clearly wants to see our son on his birthday next week after nearly 8months. He isnt stable and ds wont want to go. Whst do I do ?
I'm so afraid.