he doesnt want our baby

[Solareclipse44]

i dont know what to do, i am 19 and currently 9 weeks pregnant . the moment i told my boyfriend he left, he told me we wasnt ready..... well he wasnt ready anyway. i have decided to keep the baby with the consiquence of being a single mum but its hard because everyday he is contacting me with intentions to make me change my mind, the moment i say i am still sticking with my decision and keeping the baby he isntantly gets to being mean with horrible messages, i feel like im gaining depression or anxiety and i dont know how to stop stressing . i know stress isnt good for the baby. know any stress relief that could possibly help?

I agree with blocking him until he has something positive to offer. And if he continues to carry on like this don't let him have contact if you can help it. Or put him on the birth certificate. He's made his decision and you've made yours.

If he messages get to the point of harassment then contact the police via 101. Constantly sending you nasty messages is illegal and in this situation would be under the DV provisions. Even if it's just to record what's happening. Save the messages as well. This could all be important if you reach a stage later where you need supervised contact for the child's safety.

And he's out of order - but if anyone told us that having sex with someone you thought/assumed had taken steps would result in family and societal pressure to give up dreams of travelling, money, freedom and free time (every ow plus maybe a night a week) You would be upset. I would.

This is hilarious. Boys need to have it drummed into their heads at a very early age that if they don't want babies and STDs, they have to use a condom.

Were you on any contraception (pill/implant/injection etc)?

If yes and it failed then it's a really unfortunate situation. If no and he decided not to use a condom then more fool him, he has no right to be cross.