Backstory I'm 20 weeks pregnant. He is blocked on all social media, I've deleted every social media platform. We are not married and under no circumstances will be allowed at the birth and will NOT be on the birth certificate.
My ex would follow me around my flat, when I reached the room. He would ask me what I'm doing? If I did not respond he would get up and come to the doorway to check. If I was saying sorting the washing and I was not doing it when he come in he would say I thought you was doing the washing. Once I wanted to leave the room, he would stand by the doorway and I would always have to say excuse me please. It become worse during the pregnancy and I told him to stop it as i felt trapped and no where else to turn to.
I am having a c section. I have a son who is 4, previously had my mum accompy me to the operation. I want the same support. I had told him this weeks ago, he asked me again. He said well I'm going to miss out on the biggest day of my life and you might want to rethink that. I am obviously scared incase he shows up or starts before he is born.
I told him it's my choice and said he had never really asked about the baby or birth before. He was yelling saying he had no idea about appointments and thought I had no more until the baby was born. I'm using the child a weapon as I have all the information and dont give him nothing(I have messages from when I've told him as I've checked)
He also works within the care industry, he has stolen from work, told me information about the residents and joked he would be funny to take a photo and edit them(now I'm even more scared because I'm going out of my mind with worry he could do this to the baby)
I have not told a soul apart from my parents, my mum has often heard him on the phone saying things to me, I always have him on speaker due to his nature.
He keeps telling me the baby will be taken if I dont comply with him and no one would believe me because I have diagnosed mental health, the social services did get involved with my first child. The midwife has confirmed they are not getting involved as I'm no longer a risk due to my improvements(which I've worked so hard for and thank my darling son who has helped me in moments of darkness). He has told me the midwife, my parents, even the doctor WILL take my baby if I dont listen to him.
I'm due to speak to the midwife Wednesday and hopefully I will be able to speak to her about it, I even feel now if I do what he says will be true they will take the baby if I speak against him.
Can anyone give me advice on how what I should to protect myself and my child legally. Thank you.