I've (27f) been with DP (37m) for almost 2 years now. We moved in together just before lockdown and also have SS3 (his DS).
One great thing about our relationship is that we get on super well and are really similar, meaning we barely have any arguments. However, as lockdown has gone on, there is an increasing issue of me being able to have my own space or peace and quiet. He literally gets annoyed at me thinking I'm annoyed at him.
Our living situation through lockdown has literally just been us and then his DS3 who is at that age where he is very loud, needs a lot of attention etc, and we're both trying to work from home while look after him. On top of that, his elderly mother has just moved in with us (so we've become one household) so sometimes, I just feel I need half an hour on my own to go for a walk or put my headphones in upstairs. When his kid is here he doesn't usually speak to me that much anyway as his attention is focused on his child, so it's not like I'm ignoring him or ditching him to do something else. I do spend most of the day with the two of them.
But if I take some time or he thinks I'm a bit quiet, rather than see if things are ok, he instead stops speaking to me. If I ask him what's up or why he isn't speaking to me he says things like "well you're not speaking to me" or "you're the one shutting yourself in a room" when I'm literally just having a few minutes breather. I've explained to him before that it's not my son or my mum we're living with, so sometimes I like to just go for a walk and call my own mum or friends and he says its absolutely fine, but then when I do it says I'm "storming off" or "locking myself in a room".
Today my dad called me after a work call so I was in a different room for a little longer than usual, and he texted me saying "I'll eat breakfast on my own then."
UGGGGH! Please explain or if you can relate let me know how to deal with this!