I want to cheat / have open relationships

[Meganc95]

Hello I'm 24 iv been with my husband nearly 8 years,5years married iv known him sense I was 16 he was my first bf first kiss first everything and hes 7 years older than me so definitely had experiences and I dont know why feel like I want to cheat or have an open relationship we have talked about it and there are times I really want to and then others I don't I'm confused as I love my husband and at the beginning things were extremely exciting and our sex life now is still grate it's just been on my mind for quite a while

If your on the same page regarding open relationships then it’s okay, as long as there are rules in place first.

It’s not normal these days to shack up with your first boyfriend for life, not like they did in the 1930s etc etc, you want to experience other men and just make sure you do it without hurting anyone.

I know one couple with an open relationships, it wasn’t like that within the first 3 years but when the constant sex etc all stopped then both parties got bored (as folks do) and this is when they decided to go for it. They’ve been together for 16 years now and no kids, kids make it different I think.

would you date a 16 year old now?

^ I suggest you really consider this question OP

My DP & I fantasise about other men sharing our relationship & both get very turned on by it.

Highly unlikely we'd ever do it though as it would completely change the dynamic.