His mum is an issue? Follow up thread

[MamaOl]

For those who knew about my previous thread:

He’s been ignoring me for two weeks straight now and it’s really affected my mental health
My family say they are worried about me so much I’ve had to move in with them as they don’t trust me to be alone at home
I don’t focus on my son
I only focus on him
He just won’t talk to me and I have tried absolutely everything I can

What do I do now? I haven’t contacted him since Sunday thinking he will message as I’ve stopped but all he’s done is upload a pic on fb with him smiling with a beer in what looks like a pub,
I don’t know if it’s to get at me but it has.

I can’t cope anymore

Your DS is better off with you.

Get some support to help you to be a stronger parent.

Honestly op you're starting to sound like a stalker. And no your son isn't better off without you at all. You need urgent medication and counselling. I would ask your family for help and seek help from the charity mind. If you feel things are really bad and need to speak to someone ring the samaritans.

Remember this is just a man. He isn't a god and he isn't going to save you. He isn't a particularly nice man either.
Remember there was a reason you finished it with him. And now you're panicking and back pedaling for what? For someone who repeatedly keeps you anxious and dangling you on a string? There are many out there who would be better for you but right now, it's better for you to help yourself!!

Yes I know my son is better off without me

No he's not. Don't use that as an excuse to spend more time on this man than your son.

You son is not better off without you, he needs you

Grow up and stop allowing yourself to wallow.
You are a mother. Act like one.