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Would you say you have a deep connection with your DP/DH?

56 replies

lovelocks · 02/06/2020 00:16

Is having a deep connection in a relationship important?

OP posts:
MrsPworkingmummy · 10/06/2020 23:46

I think DH and I do, although I've just asked him the same question and he said "Why?" Hmm

Seriously though, we've been together about 12 years and have been through ups and downs yet have stuck together through it all. I love him and wouldn't want to live without him. In his words, we're a strong couple!

2007Millie · 10/06/2020 23:47

Yes.
Absolutely.

Ditzyduck · 10/06/2020 23:52

No , not at all , we are more like flat mates. I'm not, and have never been, in love with him and for me this makes the difference.

I hope one day I find someone I can be myself with . Someone who shows me proper intimacy.
I struggle to get a cuddle from my partner never mind a connection !

londonscalling · 10/06/2020 23:57

I'm not sure. We are close, happily married and get on well most of the time. We do lots together but also things separately. However, I suppose it depends on what you class as a deep connection!

PurpleTrilby · 11/06/2020 00:07

Yes, we are deeply in tune. Deeply connected.

Aerial2020 · 11/06/2020 00:39

I'm always bit sceptical when people say they are my everything or they couldn't live without them.
Is that a safe or dangerous place to be? I mean dangerous as in, to be that reliant on someone?
Can you have the connection without that?
Just wondering. Guess everyone is different and a connection means different things to people.

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