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So when can we see our partners who we don't live with

41 replies

JaneWool · 11/05/2020 00:46

Desperate to see boyfriend of 3 years. We both live with our parents and it wasnt appropriate to move in together, not fair on parents.
He lives 25 minutes away but when driving there, police are turning people around for 'non-essential' journey.
Im starting to feel really trapped that I cant see him :( i just want a walk

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LemonTT · 11/05/2020 01:00

The government know that people want this. It would be a massive win to give it to us all. But the data shows it’s too risky. That’s fairly obvious from the reports.

You need to wait. It’s a lot to ask but you are preventing the spread of a deadly virus. This is your contribution. Others are making much bigger contributions.

VanGoghsDog · 11/05/2020 01:10

They said today we can meet up with one person (at a time I assume they mean) from another household as long as we stay socially distanced. And we can now drive to undertake exercise.

So drive somewhere for a walk with your partner and have a walk staying two meters from him. If you think this is worth the risk.

Icanflyhigh · 11/05/2020 01:21

@VanGogh can you link to that where it states we can meet up with another person as long as they are socially distanced?

MinkowskisButterfly · 11/05/2020 01:24

@VanGoghsDog Yes please link, because I heard him say it was ok to go to the park, sit, play sports but ONLY with your household!

Rubybluesy · 11/05/2020 01:39

One other person is allowed

YourWinter · 11/05/2020 01:44

www.gov.uk/government/speeches/pm-address-to-the-nation-on-coronavirus-10-may-2020

Here's the complete transcript of the Prime Minister's address. The full document will be published tomorrow (Monday) so perhaps there will be more clarity then.

booboo24 · 11/05/2020 01:53

news.sky.com/story/coronavirus-new-covid-19-three-step-lockdown-rules-explained-11986177

It's in here, apparently a 'government official' claridied this late last night

VanGoghsDog · 11/05/2020 01:54

Well, I definitely heard it somewhere but you're right that it's not in that transcript.

The Mirror has got it from somewhere too:

www.google.com/amp/s/www.mirror.co.uk/news/politics/lockdown-changes-16-things-you-22005062.amp

Personally, also locked down away from dp, it's not a risk I'm going to take. Plus I think it would be worse than not seeing him.

wishfuldreamer · 11/05/2020 08:04

When talked last night about my moving in for the rest of lockdown/social distancing. We didn’t do it at the start for lots of good reasons, which still apply, but are both missing each other so much. I know people are making bigger sacrifices, but I’m on my own and I’m miserable at lot of the time.

I still don’t know what we’ll do, but it’s definitely a possibility (we can’t 2m park meet, because we live in different cities).

Sosounhappy · 11/05/2020 08:08

This isn't going to end anytime soon I would move in together

JonHammIsMyJamm · 11/05/2020 08:08

Dominic Raab said you can meet your partner outdoors 2m apart. Not in gardens (even though that is outdoors) as it is considered part of the household and ‘mixing households’. Doesn’t make much sense but there you go. Surely outside is outside?

category12 · 11/05/2020 08:08

I think the new rule is you can see each other at a 2 metre distance in a park or similar.

JonHammIsMyJamm · 11/05/2020 08:09

This was said this morning on BBCbreakfast

starrynight19 · 11/05/2020 08:11

On bbc news now

So when can we see our partners who we don't live with
DateandTime · 11/05/2020 08:14

The rules have always said no groups of more than two people from different households but there has been no positive "groups of two people are allowed" Confused

Blobby10 · 11/05/2020 08:15

You can go to work and mix with lots of other people, sharing the same air conditioned/recycled air, you can touch the same stair rails, door handles, lift buttons etc as hundreds of others, but if you have a partner/boyfriend/girlfriend/lover living alone in a separate house and who has been isolating for 6 weeks, as have you, you're not allowed to meet up because its deemed a higher risk. Its barking mad. And will lead to more people breaking this lockdown because of stupid and inconsistent rules.

JonHammIsMyJamm · 11/05/2020 08:18

@DateandTime, there was no mixing households prior to this.

DateandTime · 11/05/2020 08:19

I know but it also said no groups of more than two from different households which didn't make any sense

DateandTime · 11/05/2020 08:21

There's been some "clarification" Personally, I think meeting a loved one you haven't seen for weeks and staying 2m apart might be harder than not seeing them at all Sad

BBC News - Coronavirus: Use common sense to see loved-ones outdoors – Dominic Raab
www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-52612449

booboo24 · 11/05/2020 08:24

I live 80 miles apart from my partner too, but it does sound like I can finally see him in a park but maintaining the 2m apart. I'll take that opportunity at the moment, but only if that's clarified later.

AZ2000 · 11/05/2020 08:31

It’s already been clarified. There was a press conference after Boris Johnson’s speech. It was clarified in that, hence the reason why the press are reporting it so you should be fine to do this.

Makeuptherules · 11/05/2020 08:37

Haha it's funny everyone quoting crap from newspapers instead of the actual speech!! Good lord what's going on, are people forgetting that papers tell lies!

DateandTime · 11/05/2020 08:40

The papers are quoting the clarification ministers have given since the speech?

Mikki2019 · 11/05/2020 08:40

@wishfuldreamer I too think we will have to move in together for the rest of Lockdown and the kids go back and forth (different cities )

wishfuldreamer · 11/05/2020 09:20

@Mikki2019 - yeah. there are a lot of things for us to consider, it's a bit complicated. No kids, but a whole bunch of other things. But i'm going to mull it over this week, i guess, and we'll have to talk about it.