2yr relationship and it's all been lies

[Timetomoveonnow1]

Wow,

Where do I begin. I've been in what i thought was a relationship for 2 yrs.

I've found out all of his lies, he had even told me his mother had died last yr. I was there for him held his hand etc.

He has a wife. He has 5 yes! 5 kids. We had planned our future together. I am beyond sick at what he has done.

Everything in the relationship was lies.

Just had to vent.

I just don't understand how you could not have known. I'm not saying I don't believe you but after two years.

Why didn't u have him on fb b4

He never gave me reasons to doubt. The more I have spoken to his wife the more the comes out. He works a lot and works away etc. I'm not a suspicious person. I had no reason not to believe him. His wife and I suspect he actually believes his own lies. She is planning her exit, has started to pack kids clothes etc. She doesnt have lots of money etc.

It's been very cathartic speaking with her. In a strange way in think we are helping each other.

You know what will be making it so much harder for him right now? You and the wife standing united! Well done to you both - girl power at its greatest!

I dont want him to do it to someone else. I've made so many life decisions based on our relationship. No woman deserves that.

He has no knowledge that we've spoke. Wish I could see his reaction when she drops the bomb.

Maybe you should both be there. Now that would be a sight to see!

I think its brilliant that you and his wife are both adult enough (and angry enough) to work together instead of against each other. What a piece of crap that man is. I hope you can both build new lives without him getting in your way.