hooked to rude talk with stranger in chat room

[nuttyworkingmum]

Ok, Im probably going to get a hammering for this but here goes: I am in a 7yr relationship with a lovely partnerwho I know I love him very much and he respects me and is very kind and caring. But I have started to talk to other men and women in chat rooms firstly for a laugh and to make friends. But have started rude talk with 1 man and really get turned on by it. I feel very guilty but it has seemed to have spiced things up with my home relationship and now i wonder if he knows whats going on. Am I doing a really bad thing, should i stop b4 it gets worse!! I would never give away any secrets or personal info to anybody what Im doing feels so naughty and nice!!!
I love my man and he would b upset if he knew. I am v surprised by the amount of married men on these chatrooms who do the same and their partners don`t know anything.
Are there any other mums out there doing the same thing??

[nuttyworkingmum]

I knew i would get a hammering u guys r my conscience !!

[nuttyworkingmum]

so is it disrepectful if your boyfriend looks at porn or rings a porn line to a complete stranger

[tiredemma]

If say for example my partner looked at porn, I doubt highly that it would bother me, in fact I know it wouldnt bother me.

If though he was having sexual conversations with a group of women online, and had singled one out in particular who appeared to 'float his boat', I would be fucked off, and rightly so.

[divastrop]

er...yeah,i fantasise about my dp if im 'touching myself'.

i think you should question whether you really do love your dp if you're cheating on him.

[tiredemma]

with regards to the porn line- that will no doubt be some haggered mother of 4, in a tracksuit trying to make ends meet, not a Pammie body double who is really interested is having it away with my DP.

Can you not see the difference?

[Carmenere]

I agree with TiredEmma. Completely different. It is overstepping a line.

[divastrop]

theres a difference between chatting to a specific person who turns you on and looking at pictures of random strangers to get you going.the former is cheating IMO,just because you arent doing anything 'physical' doesnt mean its ok.

[fireflyfairy2]

Of course it's disrespectful if your DH looks at porn or rings a porn line

Just don't log in & that should cure this obsession you have.....

[divastrop]

ewww why would anyone ring a sex chat line if they are in a relationship?why not just go upstairs and ring your oh on their mobile?!?

[morningpaper]

To be honest you could be saying "I am giving blood - is that ok?" and you would get slated because you are using text speak

just a tip

regarding the phone sex - I agree, try it with your DH instead - ring him at lunchtime at work and start flirting with him instead

[nuttyworkingmum]

I cant believe that because I used text speak; people would be that offended, I mean that would be really bloody ridiculous. <br /> Are people really that anal on here !! <br /> But glad I posted it. <br /> Crikey its like a pack of wolves in here sometimes.

[divastrop]

i dont have an issue with text speak,personally

[moondog]

Oh I do
(Although not with lewd cyber talk funnily enough...)

[nuttyworkingmum]

moondog are you really ..
aww you are joking right!!!

[moondog]

Not bothered meself.
Wouldn't do it but can't see it is that different to reading saucy stuff. Trouble is,it will get you into trouble.

Who said they only ever fantassie about their dh?
She's a liar or very odd.

[tiredemma]

Text speak didnt bother me one jot

[Anniegetyourgun]

Hmm... this one for real?

[LittleMinx]

Text speak doesnt bother me, but i think what you are doing is wrong, sorry. also, its highly likely that the photos you are being shown arent really of that person. as someone else said on here, they are probably some fat, hairy, smelly person sitting at home all day with nothing better to do

[CatThiefKeith]

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