hooked to rude talk with stranger in chat room

[nuttyworkingmum]

Ok, Im probably going to get a hammering for this but here goes: I am in a 7yr relationship with a lovely partnerwho I know I love him very much and he respects me and is very kind and caring. But I have started to talk to other men and women in chat rooms firstly for a laugh and to make friends. But have started rude talk with 1 man and really get turned on by it. I feel very guilty but it has seemed to have spiced things up with my home relationship and now i wonder if he knows whats going on. Am I doing a really bad thing, should i stop b4 it gets worse!! I would never give away any secrets or personal info to anybody what Im doing feels so naughty and nice!!!
I love my man and he would b upset if he knew. I am v surprised by the amount of married men on these chatrooms who do the same and their partners don`t know anything.
Are there any other mums out there doing the same thing??

[Tucktalking]

I did that once. Got addicted to a sex chat website. Started meeting guys and talking to them nights. I was married and happy too.
However it is an addiction and waste of time. If your partner ever found out - he would be damn angry because men dont like that.
I met a few guys for a small date and did not like them.
Yes!!! I have met cheaters who confessed to me how they cheated on their poor unknowing wives and partners.
Men can be real devils. Then they got a point. Instead of working to solve their relationship issues they would rather date, chat, cheat and bury their issues rather than face their partners. ANd yes they love their partners and wives.
One of them I know must have had 20 affairs without his wife knowing, but she suspects. His reasoning was his wife would never be able to track him out. All these are carefully laid out. He is scared though of her finding out. Nothing can stop this one cheating though. He is so caring to his family and his wife too. He would never leave her for anyone else.
Men who travel and spend days in other countries and places (esp nights) are more prone to get into this cheating habit.
Liars of the first degree, they are and they have a set of rules to go by too.

[WhatALoadOfOldBollocks]

"Oi! Don't blame me, some dirty bugger posted a load of fanny pictures on a Zombie thread and I reported him for being a perv."

Damn, I always miss the drama which is surprising considering the amount of time I spend on here

[CatThiefKeith]

Oi! Don't blame me, some dirty bugger posted a load of fanny pictures on a Zombie thread and I reported him for being a perv.

[SoleBizzz]

Bollox

[MistressDeeCee]

errrmm just scrolled up and saw the post is 8 years old comments. Oh well OP has probably run off with Mr romeo potbelly by now then....

[MistressDeeCee]

If you know your partner would be hurt by it then yes, you are wrong. If on the other hand he' be turned on by it (I thought you were intimating that in your post and 1st few comments..?) then no harm done I suppose. Whatever floats your (and his) boat I suppose.

Aside from that Im not sure what to think.. you're not planning to meet or have sex with this guy so its strictly a fantasy. The problem is with the directness of it, I think. Its 1-1 sex chat, same person every time, and you are likely both forming a picture of each other in your heads.. and you know what curiosity does.

I think perhaps you want to meet him which is why you are suddenly guilt-tripping. In which case its time to stop. I can imagine its addictive though, especially as you feel safe behind a screen. Id say cold turkey is the only way to do it, no goodbyes or explanations just stop logging on. Good luck with being able to do that, however. Its a tough one..

[WhatALoadOfOldBollocks]

Bollocks
This is a ZOMBIE THREAD....it's over 8 years old.

Shit! I blame Keith melud. Yup, that'll stand up in court
Bloody zombie threads. I wish they could just be locked or something. I'm usually pretty hot on noticing dates though.

[SfaOkaySuperFurryAnimals]

8 years old or a troll damn these threads that get me fired up!

[SfaOkaySuperFurryAnimals]

Where is the time for that? I mean by the time I've been to work, food shopping, parent governors, morrisons. The WI
Seriously??? If you think your mot doing anything wrong, let your other half do the same...eh?

[Mom2K]

Oops...only read first page before commenting. Didn't know this was old.

[Mom2K]

Well...my ex did that kind of crap, which is exactly why he is my ex

And yes, you are doing a really bad thing. There is no magic trick to stopping. You are a grown woman capable of making and exercising a choice. Just stop. End of.

[Fintan]

Bollocks

This is a ZOMBIE THREAD....it's over 8 years old.

[WhatALoadOfOldBollocks]

"they must of borrowed some other guys photos then!!"
That's what many men do when online dating/chatting. Do a Google reverse image search and you'll soon see.

Regarding whether what you're doing is wrong, yes it is because your DP doesn't know. Why don't you ask him what he thinks about it? If he says he's happy with you sexting a particular man online then it's fine isn't it. But I doubt he'd say that.

[CatThiefKeith]

Reported

[LittleMinx]

Text speak doesnt bother me, but i think what you are doing is wrong, sorry. also, its highly likely that the photos you are being shown arent really of that person. as someone else said on here, they are probably some fat, hairy, smelly person sitting at home all day with nothing better to do

[Anniegetyourgun]

Hmm... this one for real?

[tiredemma]

Text speak didnt bother me one jot

[moondog]

Not bothered meself.
Wouldn't do it but can't see it is that different to reading saucy stuff. Trouble is,it will get you into trouble.

Who said they only ever fantassie about their dh?
She's a liar or very odd.

[nuttyworkingmum]

moondog are you really ..
aww you are joking right!!!