Hiya,
This is my 1st post and I really need some advice so please be kind.
So, I have been with my partner for over 12 years. 3 years in, we had a break and I regrettably started a short relationship with someone else. We got back together and life was good.... or so I thought!
Something didn't feel right so I checked his phone and there were messages from another woman!! I confronted him and he eventually confessed they had been having an affair for around 5 months and had slept together "a few times".
She's married with a toddler. He was their plumber and pushed together by his boss- whom himself has affairs with married women. Obviously I am absolutely broken and torn to pieces but I really dont want to give up on our family just yet, and still love him. I just still have so much anger, mainly towards that slag and his boss. I feel like a way to help me get past it is by hurting her like she has me!! I have a message in my drafts ready to send to her husband (who supposedly knows) with juicy info. Do you think it's a good idea? Has anyone had a similar situation and stayed with their partner after an affair? Now I'm stuck with him during this lockdown.
I have a child from previous relationship and we have one together.