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Reciprocal intimacy

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Devonliving · 22/02/2020 21:07

We've been together for nine months, things are great. We have clicked in a way I never have with anyone else.

We have an active sex life, and I very much enjoy our love making. I do the "work" in our sex life, the touching, kissing, the giving, which as I said I'm generally absolutely fine with, the thing is, my partner has never kissed me anywhere other than on my mouth, no neck kissing, no kissing on the chest or anywhere else... Our love making almost always includes me kissing my partner's neck, chest and all over their body, including their fill of oral, which they appear to enjoy, but they haven't reciprocated yet... I'm generally happy with that, I don't want my partner to do anything they are uncomfortable with or anything that doesn't come naturally and lovingly, and I'm certainly not desperate to receive everytime we are intimate, but it's starting to feel strange that they seem to enjoy receiving, but have never kissed me anywhere other than my mouth and have never reciprocated what they them self seem to enjoy in over nine months...

I know I should probably talk to them about it, but I don't want them to feel any pressure or for them to do it because I have asked.

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Russellbrandshair · 23/02/2020 20:43

So hair used to be normal and now is niche because of porn. Ditto anal

Lol havent you heard of the Ancient Romans? They used to practice pubic hair removal. Pretty sure they didn’t have internet porn then either 😆

Gwenhwyfar · 23/02/2020 22:42

"Its a message for both. Both are involved here, not just the man. Sex involves two people so both of them should talk."

He's the one who's unhappy so the onus is on him I think.

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