Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

FWB and condom

52 replies

Nursehorsefly · 14/02/2020 13:19

I have a FWB who I’ve known for about 20 years. In the past he has had a varied and colourful sex life. We’ve always used condoms. He is saying now that I’m his only partner and there is no need for condoms. I don’t know if I trust him or why he is asking to do this? He has always been very ...err ....responsive. I thought, if anything, the condom helped slow him down a bit? The nature of our relationship is that he has been open about his other activities - and I’ve been ok with this as he has been careful/we’ve always used protection.

OP posts:
4thIRMmeB · 04/10/2023 13:41

If you are at all uncomfortable with the idea (and from the sounds of it you are, due to reasonable concerns around STDs and monogamy) you would be putting yourself at risk for sex you won't even be enjoying much because you'll be so distracted by paranoid thoughts. This conflict may also be bringing to light an underlying dissatisfaction with having sex with someone who you don't really trust...

category12 · 04/10/2023 16:02

Zombie

FWB and condom
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread