Just had a huge row with DP about cats, this may sound stupid and I really need to know if I am being unreasonable or is it him.
We have recently moved into my new house and in living in a very very small studio whilst we renovate the house. I have 2 cats who are very content and happy now. We were staying in his house before and tried to introduce his daughters cats (which she got a few years ago but now at Uni and said she can't have them) but it was a nightmare they had to be kept separated, terrible fighting. I have been trying to talk to DP about rehoming her cats and also asking her to decide what she wants to do, but this has fallen on deaf ears each time I mention it the subject is changed. So today I asked him what is happening and he said they are coming here, I am putting my foot as there is nowhere for them to stay and just cant stand the fighting, I love cats and don't think this is fair on any of them. Anyway he has said things like well I will just get them put down, or throw then out on the road, I see this as emotional blackmail. He is very angry with me and has called me controlling and being a bitch and does not want my cats here. This all sounds ridiculous and very unfair, Am prepared to be told I am wrong though. I feel like a horrible person now