I just need to vent and I don't really have anyone I can speak to, also I need to know if I'm being oversensitive.
My partner and I have been together for 6.5 years. He has went back to university to study while I work full time. I pay the majority of our bills including mortgage, electricity, gas, food etc he would say he uses his money to keep us going throughout the month but that's due to the fact my money is spent in days on bills! At Christmas I spent around £200 on him and he did not buy me as much as a box of chocolates. He promised me when he was paid he'd treat me, I still haven't even received a box of chocolates.
We had an argument a few days ago due to him saying I wasn't "pulling my weight" with chores. I had been working 42 hours each week and have been very unwell which resulted in me being on antibiotics for two weeks. First argument we have he brings up that I hadn't been cleaning up or making dinner, the antibiotics had been making me sick several times a day. He had been off university for three weeks over festive period. He said some really nasty things - I'm lazy, a slob, a lazy bstard, a bstard in general, brought my parents into the argument, he called me dirty and useless. The thing is, I can't seem to get over the things he said. I have brought it up to him and told him I feel he crossed a line. He said a hurried sorry but it was not a genuine apology and I've went over his words in my heads for days.
I feel he takes me for granted - he does not stop and consider how easy his life actually is. It would be nice for him to appreciate what I do for him more and acknowledge that I work hard to allow him to achieve his dreams. Am I being silly? I feel totally taken for granted.