I've been with DP for four years, we get along well with minor hiccups (the usual relationship stuff)
We live in a tiny 2 bedroom flat and we're getting on top of each other with being off over Christmas and New Year. We've just had a huge argument and he's stormed out...
Basically (this next part might be too much information) he constantly farts and shits, he finds it hilarious and I just cannot bare it. It's vile.
If we go on holiday, the first thing he does is take a poo and smell the whole room out. In the morning at home, he's on the toilet and I go in after and he stinks. In the afternoon, again, it fucking reeks.
Last night in bed, he turned over and trumped on me and then wafted the quilt. I don't find it funny, it's gross. We have a jokey relationship and take the piss about all sorts but I just don't find it hilarious, like he does, when he trumps.
Anyway, this afternoon he's in the toilet and I can smell it through the door so I say "make sure you spray!' and he just opens the window. I say no, spray! he refused to and said 'it makes it worse!'
Cherry Peony Airfreshener does not smell worse than shit.
Next minute, he flips and chucks the air freshener into the kitchen, gets his stuff and storms out. Usually if we argue (like I say, very rare) I'll try and sort it out but I actually think it's gross.
All I ask is that he opens the window and sprays air freshener - like all other normal humans do.
He'll make out it's my fault and he's 'so sick of having this conversation' and I am, too. I just don't like the smell of shit!
He's so stubborn and I doubt he'll see my point of view but I don't know if I'm being unreasonable? It literally is constant farts and poo.
I should add, absolutely no bowel issues/allergies/chronic illnesses are present 