Tips to become the perfect DW whilst binding my time

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I've found the incriminating messages and have decided to bide my time. But the only way to really get the prick to feel anything is to become the perfect wife (well partner - we're not married). Any tips to achieve Stepford glory whilst keeping my sanity will be appreciated! We have a newborn and a newly bought wreck of a house so timing is everything.

Absolutely don’t start the renovations until you have a plan. An additional financial burden isn’t something you need right now.

Op that’s such a shitty situation. What an awful man.
It’ll make no difference to him if you become the ‘perfect wife’. All that’s going to do is focus your energy into making sure his needs are met. What’s the point if that?

Go make sure your needs are met instead. What do you need to do for yourself?

Hope you’re ok OP. I’d use this time to start privately planning your new life as a single Mum. Squirrel away secret savings, get the house sellable (or perhaps ready to let out?) - how long until you’re out of the early redemption fee period? That could be upto 3 years OP which is a LONG time to have that dick in your personal energy.

Fuckin men.... do you think it’s one woman OP? Are you ok?