New partner doesn't climax during sex

[pinktophat]

I have met someone I really like. We get on extremely well and are both enjoying the start of this relationship. During this time there's about 8 occasions when we've slept together. It's all been fine except he never finishes - he hasn't climaxed. We have not talked this over as I don't want to add stress to the situation.
Why would this be? The mechanics all seem to be fine. He's been single a while with a few short-term relationships so could it be anxiety or something else?

Did the OP mention porn use?

Lots of must be death grip assumptions here.

I'm on anti depressants and can't orgasm so in this regard, I could've been the OPs boyfriend, except I'm married and have been for a long time.

Yes it's crap, but no different that when a woman can't orgasm - goes both ways.

Sorry it’s over but sounds like it’s for the best. I can’t get over it. Awful to not know why, too. Doesn’t sound like a good relationship to me. Onwards for you.

it's not a sign of anything.

It is, and it's usually a sign of him pulling the cock off himself to internet porn. You're well rid.

Love all the advice from the 50s gals, leave him be or if you do bring it up, do it very gently with kid gloves in case you damage his porn addled misogynistic ego..

This has really helped, thank you. I'd felt sad at being abruptly finished with but this thread has made me feel differently. I didn't see any porn side to him but as he wasn't upfront at all and has dropped me so suddenly it doesn't seem impossible.