Would you be annoyed if guy your seeing told you to shut up?

[coldandheart]

He text me this morning and I replied.
He sent me a video of a song we always sing and I replied then he text saying
"Right enough of this texting please,it's too early for this carry on"
So basically shut up and stop messaging
So I just replied jokingly saying
"Ha ha ok il try and keep my mouth shut "
(We always say I talk too much in life "
And he replied "we can live In hope"
I didn't reply
It was 8am and he had just got to work BUT he messaged me.
Would that annoy you ?

Do you usually suffer from the inability to read sarcasm?

He wasn't being sarcastic ...he was telling me to stop messaging him.

It sounds like you both joke about chatting too much like this normally. You have joked that you talk too much yourself.

Why have you decided you don't like it now? (Are there other signs that are worrying you?)

No, it sounds like a joke to me.

That was the first time he ever said stop messaging him.
I thought it was a bit rude

No, he was being sarcastic. Or else he hates you and finds you annoying. In which case I'm not sure why he would be dating you.

Maybe I'm reading too much into it.
He hasn't text since tho,I won't text him till he texts me.

I think he was just being silly. And had to get to work. Kind of depends what he's like otherwise.

I would not have read it in that tone, it sounds like he was kidding around with you, and now he is at work and needs to focus.

Lighten up OP!

It's usually quite busy when you first get to work. He was probably saying he needed to get on.

Sounds to me like he was joking OP.

And I would never stand for someone telling me to shut up in a serious way.

Sounds like something and nothing. Maybe he's annoyed, you seem annoyed. Seems trivial to fall out over.

If this is not part of a bigger pattern I'd leave it. I often think it's difficult to read in a text conversation when it's come to an end, rather than in RL where it's more obvious.

He didnt tell you to shut up OP. You should ump him anyway as you sound like a melter.

My reply before his wasn't even a question.
I was just said "oh your taste In music is worse than mine ha "
So he didn't even have to reply ...that's when he said enough of this texting carry on

He was obviously joking, your reading way way too much into it.

He hasn't told you to shut up at all.

I wish I had the courage to send that to a dear friend who I love. She annoys the shit out of me with her inability to text briefly and take a hint (that I am too busy for this).

I don’t think it means he doesn’t care for you, fancy you whatever. Just that he’s not a back and forth texter.

Some days he is a big and forth texter
More times than he isn't
It's always on his terms tho by the looks of it.

I don’t think it means he doesn’t care for you, fancy you whatever. Just that he’s not a back and forth texter

There you go OP. Next time he texts you just ignore him completely.

Personally I'd tell him not to bloody text then if he doesnt want a reply. Then have a RL conversation later about how the tone of texts can not come across properly.

I'm not gonna say a word all day.
He knows where i am when he wants to chat.

Are you 12 😂

When I’m busy at work I simply message my boyfriend “just got into work, will message you later, have a good day” that way no ones upset. He will message me with similar.

But it does sound like he was trying to be light hearted and jokey whilst also letting you know he was busy.

I think I'm just too over sensitive.
I probably will give him a text tonight when he's home from work.
No point causing a massive drama over that.

Bloody hell OP.

Do you like this guy, because he won’t be around long if you keep these antics up