So. I have an overbearing and pushy sil. Shes a nurse (relevant i think) and seems to think she knows better.
Really starting to be a problem for me in that im finding it hard not to say anything cos i will end up just being really fucking rude and thats not me.
Its mostly over my dcs, ds6, dd18mth dts 4mth old. I feel like im being interrogated every time she comes round. Constantly going on about if they are full of wind, spitting up, are they chesty? Who was it was chesty before?
(Twins were for good while wheezy and chesty/snuffly which was combo of viral stuff and milk intolerance as theyve had scaly flaky skin on forehead and scalp. Clearing up now with diff milk and special cream. They also both at diff occasions in the hosp for couple nights due to viral things so very worrying and stressful for me)
Anytime any of them get coughs shes on and on about did they get honey and have they said anything else you can give??
Then last night i had mentioned in a text that my other sil sister who is a homeopath sent over cream for their skin as id asked her for recommendations. She had wrote on it what it contained and to patch test first, which i obvs done. So far its working.
She replied to my text saying 'thats very good of her but find out whats in it' bla bla..
My response to that was 'i know whats in it cos she wrote on tin'
She hasnt text since lol. But im really fucked off. Thinking next time she starts up to say to her that i already have a hv (who is fucking fab btw, but no she 'doesnt think much of her') and i will direct any concerns to her as thats what shes there for. Any body else any suggestions for shutting her down without being overtly bitchy about it??