For the first 18 months of my relationship with my dp he was amazing, we had such a great relationship. He then moved away for work in the city, he could have commute from the town where we met but decided to move back to his hometown some 45 miles away and since then (4 years later) he has changed towards me.
Started making jokes about me being his side chick, going out and say in he will give me a quick call and doesn't even text to say he can't, saw a message to one of his friends saying now he is in London he falls in love everyday with the number of hot women. Telling me to get back into the kitchen or to stop answering back when I ask him not to talk to me like this then proclaims he is just joking, and because he says it so light heartedly I believe him, so stupid. But now we are on holiday and last night I tripped and fell, he then quipped that my big nose broke my fall. I'm super sensitive about my nose, looking into having surgery, he knows this and yet finds it funny to make this comment. I just dont understand why he is being this way. What should I do?